Coming in September on Reaching Hurting Women...
Working the Steps: Step 9
Step Nine is a culmination of the forgiveness process: forgiving ourselves / others;  receiving forgiveness from God / others. But before we can forgive ourselves, we must first acknowledge the pain others have suffered because of our actions. 
                                  
 
BOOK REVIEW: 
Healing the Shame That Binds You
 by John Bradshaw 
 
Unhealthy toxic shame learned in childhood and maintained in adulthood, is often the core component of our compulsions, co-dependencies, addictions and drives to over achieve. 
 
Virtues ~n~ Vices :: Forgiveness
Forgiveness isn't based on merit but grace. It's a choice - a faith decision to not hold a grudge/sin against another person any longer... even ourselves. 
Healing Hurts :: Anger
Anger is a wide umbrella word covering many levels of the emotion... indignation, wrath, fury, rage.  How can we deal with this fire we have growing within? 
      
 
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