STEP SIX: We were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
"Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up."~ James 4:10
PRINCIPLE FIVE (Celebrate Recovery): Voluntarily submit to every change God wants to make in my life and humbly ask Him to remove my character defects.
"Happy are those whose greatest desire is to do what God requires." ~ Matthew 5:6
In the previous steps, as we began removing the addictions and dependencies from our life, we came face to face with our deeper character defects and discovered a lot of brokenness inside. Facing our brokenness can be overwhelming and painful. But if we've made it this far we must be ready for God to change us.
Thankfully God doesn't measure us on how hard we work. But rather on the condition of our heart. He wants us to mourn over our sins and admit our brokenness. When we bring our brokenness to Him, He promises to forgive us, comfort us and cleanse us. Along with this cleansing God will satisfy our emotional hunger and help us overcome our character defects.
To go forward we must die to our old coping mechanisms. These comfortable "friends" who carried us in troubled times can no longer be a part of our life. But with the loss of anything familiar they need a proper burial. We must turn away from our defective ways, cover the shame with God's love and allow ourselves time to mourn the loss.
I can look back with fond memories knowing my defects are no longer my friends.
A difficult part of working Step 6 is not knowing who we will be when our defects are gone. They may have caused a lot of pain and suffering in the past, but at least this defective person is familiar.
Who will we be without our character defects?
Will our friends and loved ones still accept us when we become this new person?
The bigger question we need to ask is: "Are we really willing for God to remove all our addictions and dependencies?" The truth is we can't even become willing without God's help!
We must be honest with ourselves and realize we may never be "entirely" ready for God to remove our defects of character. What's important is that we stay close to God and keep moving in the right direction. As we do we will get as close to being ready as possible. When we do our part, God will meet us there and take us the rest of the way.
In fact, by dying on the cross, Jesus met us more than half way! He went all the way for our faults, failures and addictions. It helps me to visualize my specific areas of weakness nailed on the cross with Christ.
It is only on the Cross of Christ that our defects of character can be removed.
Dear God, thank you for bringing me this far on my recovery journey. I ask for Your help to make me entirely ready to change all my character defects. Give me the strength to deal with all I have turned over to you. Allow me to accept these changes you are making in my life. Help me be the person You want me to be. In Jesus Christ's name... Amen
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